
Couples Counselling North East Victoria
Certified Gottman therapist
Supporting couples across Wangaratta, Albury-Wodonga and surrounds

Supporting couples across Wangaratta, Albury-Wodonga and surrounds
If you feel stuck having the same arguments, disconnected from each other, or unsure how to move forward after betrayal, you’re not alone.
I specialise in couples therapy and I am a Certified Gottman Therapist, supporting couples experiencing communication difficulties, ongoing conflict, emotional disconnection, infidelity and betrayal, intimacy challenges, and the impact of trauma or individual difficulties on the relationship.
Therapy combines the research-based Gottman Method with a trauma-informed understanding of the individual experiences that can shape how we connect, communicate and respond within relationships.
For couples seeking faster, more focused support, 1-day couples therapy intensives are also available.
"After ongoing conflict and stress in our relationship, we came to Connection Matters Counselling feeling stuck.
Amanda was warm and welcoming from the start and never took sides. She helped us understand that we are two different people with different emotional experiences and perspectives. Through practical tools and structured sessions, we learnt how to validate and communicate with each other more effectively.
She also supported us with intimacy and normalised my experiences as a woman, which made a significant difference. We now have the tools to manage conflict and feel stronger, wiser and happier as a couple".
"After the birth of our first baby, I was struggling emotionally and our relationship felt strained.
My husband was reluctant about counselling, but Amanda made him feel comfortable and heard.
She created space for both of us and helped us understand how to truly listen to each other.
Sessions felt supportive and practical, with clear tools we could apply straight away. The difference it made to our relationship and to our parenting has been significant".
"Our relationship had become constant fighting and blame.
Amanda helped us see each other’s perspective with compassion. She understood our dynamic quickly and guided us toward more respectful and connected communication.
Our marriage now feels loving, lighter and far less reactive. We are deeply grateful".
Couples counselling can be very effective, particularly when both partners are willing to engage in the process and try new ways of communicating.
It focuses on understanding the patterns that keep you stuck like repeated arguments, communication breakdowns, or disconnection and helping you respond differently.
Many couples notice changes not just in insight, but in how they relate to each other in everyday conversations.
This can sometimes happen when the idea of counselling is first raised.
You’re welcome to begin with an individual session to explore what’s involved and talk through possible ways forward that you can share with your partner.
In some cases, this can help your partner feel more comfortable with the process.
If you’re still asking this question, it usually means something in the relationship is still important to you.
Counselling can help you understand what’s happening, whether the relationship can move forward, and what that might realistically look like.
Yes, I support couples working through the impact of infidelity or betrayal, including rebuilding trust, understanding what led to the rupture, and creating a path forward whether that is repair or in some cases separation.

Certified Gottman Therapist
Master of Counselling
Clinical Member, PACFA
EMDRAA Member / EMDR Therapist
Trauma-informed Couples Therapist
If you are considering couples therapy, you don’t need to have everything decided before starting.
The first session provides clarity and a structured path forward.
I acknowledge the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the traditional custodians of the lands; they are the first nations of the earth, waterways and skies where we live, work, play and learn.
I also recognise and celebrate the continuing wisdom and insight of indigenous health practice and humbly hold the deepest respect for their harmonious relationship with the natural world.



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