Relationship Reset Couples Intensive

When you keep having the same arguments, struggle to resolve important differences, or feel increasingly disconnected, it can be difficult to create change in short conversations at home, or even in a standard therapy session.

The Relationship Reset is a private, one-day Couples Therapy Intensive that gives us dedicated time to understand what is happening between you, work on the issues keeping you stuck, and develop practical ways of communicating and navigating conflict differently.

Held at my private practice in Porepunkah, near Bright, the intensive provides uninterrupted time away from the demands of everyday life to focus on your relationship.

Not sure whether an intensive is right for you? You are welcome to book a complimentary 15-minute enquiry call to ask questions and learn more about the intensive process. 

Book a complimentary Couples Intensive – 15 Minute Enquiry Call 

In the booking portal, select “Couples Intensive   – 15 Minute Enquiry Call"

Couples come to an intensive for many different reasons. A Relationship Reset may be helpful if you: 

• keep having the same arguments without reaching a resolution 
• struggle with communication, defensiveness or shutting down 
• feel increasingly disconnected or more like housemates than partners 
• find that one of you seeks connection while the other pulls away 
• have an important issue that you have been unable to resolve 
• struggle with differences around parenting, intimacy, work, money, family or priorities 
• need to negotiate boundaries or agreements within your relationship 
• understand each other's perspectives but still don't know how to move forward 
• want to strengthen your relationship without committing to months of weekly appointments 

You don't need to arrive knowing exactly what is wrong or how to fix it. Part of our work is understanding the patterns you have become caught in and identifying where change is needed.

Every relationship is different, so your intensive is tailored to what emerges through your assessment, individual preparation sessions and the goals you both identify.

During the day, we may work on:

• understanding the cycle you repeatedly become caught in 
• recognising patterns such as criticism, defensiveness, contempt or withdrawal 
• identifying emotional flooding and learning how to pause and regulate before conversations become damaging 
• practising a structured way of talking and listening during difficult conversations 
• understanding the deeper needs, values and meaning underneath recurring disagreements 
• working through an important unresolved issue with support in the room 
• finding areas of flexibility and compromise when your needs differ 
• strengthening friendship, appreciation and emotional connection 
• developing practical agreements and strategies to take home 

This is active couples therapy, rather than a workshop or group program. We work with your actual relationship and the conversations you find difficult, with guidance and support throughout the day. 

Comprehensive Gottman Relationship Assessment 

Before the intensive, you will both complete an online Gottman Relationship Assessment. The assessment provides detailed information about the strengths and challenges within your relationship and helps me prepare for our work together before the intensive begins.

Individual preparation session for each partner

I meet individually with each partner for a 60-minute preparation session before the intensive. These sessions can be held online or face to face at my Wangaratta practice and give each of you an opportunity to share your perspective and help me understand your relationship history, current concerns and what you are hoping to achieve. They also allow me to assess whether an intensive is appropriate and plan our day around the areas where our time is likely to be most useful.

Your private intensive day

Your Relationship Reset is held at my private practice in Porepunkah, near Bright, from 8:45 am–3:45 pm. The entire day is dedicated to the two of you. There are no other couples and this is not a group program. Breaks are incorporated throughout the day to support regulation, reflection and concentration.

Your relationship plan

The goal isn't simply to have productive conversations while you are with me and then wonder what to do when you get home. We finish by bringing together what you have learned about your relationship and developing practical strategies and agreements to support you moving forward.

Committing to a full-day intensive is a significant decision, and you may have questions before you are ready to book.

If you feel it would be helpful to have a chat first, I offer complimentary 15-minute Intensive Enquiry Calls on Tuesdays and Thursdays.

This can be a helpful opportunity to briefly tell me what you are hoping to work on, ask any questions you may have and understand more about the intensive and what to expect from the process.

You can select a time that works best for you directly through my online booking portal.

Book a complimentary Couples Intensive – 15 Minute Enquiry Call 

In the booking portal, select “Couples Intensive   – 15 Minute Enquiry Call"

1. Book an optional 15-minute enquiry call 

If you have questions or aren't sure whether an intensive is the right option, start with a complimentary 15-minute Intensive Enquiry Call. If you're comfortable proceeding, you can skip this step.

2. Book your individual preparation sessions

Each partner will need to attend their own 60-minute preparation session before the intensive. When booking, select “Individual Session – Preparation for Intensive.” These appointments can be completed online or face to face at my Wangaratta practice.

3. Choose your intensive date

Once you have booked both individual preparation sessions, you can select an available Tuesday after these sessions have taken place for your Relationship Reset Intensive in Porepunkah. 

4. Complete your Gottman Relationship Assessment

Once your intensive is booked, you will receive information about completing your online relationship assessment before our intensive day.

5. Attend your Relationship Reset

We meet in Porepunkah for your private intensive and spend the day working specifically on your relationship and the issues you have identified as most important.

Ready to proceed? You can book your Relationship Reset through my online booking portal below. 

In the booking portal, select “Couples Intensive – Porepunkah” to view the available intensive options. 

Many couples choose to make their intensive part of a weekend away.

A Simple, Practical Schedule

• Day prior: Travel and settle into your accommodation
• Intensive day: 8:45 am-3:45 pm
• After your session:
  • Travel home
  • Or stay on and enjoy a relaxed weekend together

Turn It into a Weekend Experience

Your intensive takes place in Porepunkah, in Victoria's High Country, approximately 10 minutes from Bright, a popular destination known for its natural beauty, great food, and slower pace.

Many couples choose to stay on after their intensive, giving themselves some additional time together before returning to everyday life.  For more information Bright & Surrounds, Victoria - Official Tourism Website

 $2,500 — all inclusive

Your Relationship Reset includes:

• comprehensive online Gottman Relationship Assessment 
• one 60-minute individual preparation session for each partner 
• private full-day Relationship Reset Couples Intensive 
• personalised strategies, resources and relationship plan 

What happens after the intensive?

At the end of the intensive, we will discuss whether any further support would be helpful. Some couples may choose to continue putting what they have learned into practice independently, while others may benefit from follow-up couples counselling. 

The total fee for the Relationship Reset is $2,500, which includes both individual preparation sessions, the Gottman Relationship Assessment and your full-day intensive.

Each partner pays $250 when booking their individual preparation session. Together, these two payments form the $500 non-refundable deposit toward your Relationship Reset.

The remaining balance of $2000 is due 14 days prior to the scheduled intensive and full payment is non-refundable once received. Due to the nature of intensive therapy, this booking reserves a significant portion of clinical time, including preparation, individual sessions, and the full-day intensive.

Rescheduling

Clients may request to reschedule their intensive with a minimum of 7 days' notice. In this case, the deposit may be transferred to a future booking date, subject to availability. Requests to reschedule within 7 days of the scheduled intensive cannot be accommodated and will result in forfeiture of payments.

Acknowledgement

By proceeding with the booking, you acknowledge and agree to the above terms.